Porno anyone?

Unlike some friends, I never minded when my husband watched porn, with or without me. I did like to open the cable bill and see what dates he ordered something on demand and wonder where I was at the moment. Was I cleaning the kitchen or watching television upstairs? If I wore a french maid outfit and high heels could he end up equally satisfied?

I would press him for stories about strip clubs and be disappointed that the only detail he would reveal was that the women were “worn” or “beat-up.” I’d find Hustler money in his nighttime drawer and ask about his most recent trip and why he did not tell me earlier.

To me, porn is safe. If he can be satisfied at home by me or a $9.95 flick AND I am satisfied, then why not. It’s a lot healthier than emotionally cheating or creating intimacy with a stranger who could conceivably stick around, whether in terms of an STD or stalker type.

Anyone agree? Disagree?

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2 Responses to Porno anyone?

  1. girlydigs says:

    I think porn is ok if it’s out in the open and not a hidden thing in the relationship and if both partners are ok with it. But, it can become an obssession and cause problems if it’s not kept in perspective. That’s my 2 cents 🙂 Good post!

  2. 1hpb says:

    I guess I am lucky that I have not been exposed to the obsession/addiction side of it.

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